Searching for the right boarding school is an exciting process, but it can feel a little overwhelming at first, especially when there are so many amazing options out there! You might not be able to visit them all in person, but don’t worry: with a little planning, research, and reflection, you can build a list of schools that truly match your interests, strengths, and goals.
Whether you’re drawn to boarding school for the academics, extracurriculars, community, or something else, this guide will help you think through what matters most and how to find schools that are a strong fit—even from a distance.
Step 1: Know Yourself First
Before you dive into researching schools, it’s helpful to take a step back and think about you.
Ask yourself:
- What kind of learning environment helps me do my best?
- Do I want a school with strong athletics, arts, STEM, or something else?
- How independent and self-motivated am I?
- Do I prefer a close-knit, small school or a larger campus with more variety?
- What kind of support systems do I need to feel successful and balanced?
Having a clear sense of your preferences, strengths, and goals will make it easier to recognize a good match when you see one.
Step 2: Get to Know the Basics
Start with the big picture. There are hundreds of boarding schools in the U.S. and beyond, each with its own unique personality. Here are some key factors to explore:
- School Size: Some schools have under 200 students; others have 1,000+. Smaller schools may offer tight-knit communities and more personalized attention. Larger schools may offer more courses, clubs, and facilities.
- Location: Do you want to be near a city, or somewhere more rural? Weather, access to airports, and proximity to home can all be part of your decision.
- Academic Approach: Some schools have a traditional college-prep model. Others emphasize project-based learning, advanced STEM courses, or interdisciplinary programs. Check out course offerings and graduation requirements.
- Special Programs: Are you interested in visual arts, theater, robotics, global travel, or competitive athletics? Look for schools that invest in the areas that excite you most.
- Student Life & Values: What does the school care about? Read mission statements and watch how schools talk about things like diversity, leadership, wellness, and community.
Step 3: Use Your Online Tools Wisely
Even if you can’t visit a campus in person, you can still get a strong sense of what a school is like. Here are some smart ways to research from home:
- Explore the school’s website deeply. Read student profiles, look at daily schedules, view course catalogs, and check out clubs and sports. What stands out? What feels exciting?
- Attend virtual tours and info sessions. Many schools offer online events where you can hear directly from admissions officers, students, and faculty. Come with questions!
- Follow schools on social media. Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok often give you a more informal, behind-the-scenes look at campus life. Watch what students post—and what they don’t post—to get a sense of the vibe.
- Reach out and connect. Don’t hesitate to email the admissions office and ask to speak with a current student, teacher, or coach, or to be connected with an alumni representative. They’re usually happy to help you learn more.
Step 4: Think About Financial Fit
Boarding school is a big investment, but don’t assume a school is out of reach based on the sticker price alone. Many schools offer generous financial aid and scholarships.
When building your list:
- Include schools known for strong financial aid policies.
- Be honest with your family about what’s affordable.
- Ask admissions offices early about what kind of aid they offer and how to apply.
A good fit should support your family financially as well as academically and socially.
Step 5: Build a Balanced List
Once you’ve done your research, aim to create a well-rounded list of schools that fall into three general categories:
- Reach Schools: Places where admission is more competitive or a bit of a stretch based on your academic profile.
- Target Schools: Schools where your grades, test scores, and interests are a strong match.
- Likely Schools: Great-fit schools where you feel confident you’ll be admitted and thrive.
A balanced list gives you choices and helps reduce stress during the application process.
It’s easy to focus on “big name” boarding schools but remember: the best school for you is the one where you’ll feel supported, challenged, and inspired—not just impressed by the name on a sweatshirt. Trust your instincts, stay curious, and focus on what makes you thrive.
There’s no one-size-fits-all path to success at boarding schools. With thoughtful research and an open mind, you’ll find a school that feels like home! To learn more about building your ideal boarding school list, register for Sesameed’s upcoming webinar.