Applying to a boarding school is an exciting experience! You work hard on your application, write essays, get recommendations, and then wait for the big day—admissions decisions! But what happens when you finally hear back? American schools can respond in three main ways: an acceptance, a waitlist, or a rejection. Let’s break it all down so you can understand what each decision means and what to do next.

In, Out, Waitlist – What Each Status Means

Acceptance: You’re In!

If you receive an acceptance letter, congratulations! This means the school reviewed your application and decided you would be a great fit to attend their school. Here’s what you should do next:

• Celebrate – You worked hard, and this is a big achievement! 

• Review the Offer – Read through the details carefully. Some schools may offer financial aid or scholarships, so check for those as well. Look for information about tuition, housing, and meal plans, and see if there are any extra fees you need to consider. If you receive financial aid, understand how much it covers and whether you’ll need to reapply each year. 

• Check for Accepted Student Days – Many boarding schools offer accepted student visit days. These are designated days for students who have been accepted to visit campus, meet faculty and current students, attend some classes and extracurriculars, and get a better feel for the school environment. These visit days can be hugely helpful in making your final decision! 

• Compare Your Options – If you applied to multiple schools and got into more than one, think about which school is the best fit for you. Consider factors like campus environment, class sizes, extracurricular activities, and academic programs. Talk to current students, visit campuses if possible, and think about where you’ll feel happiest and most successful. 

• Respond on Time – Schools usually give you a deadline to accept or decline the offer. Make sure you reply before the deadline to secure your spot!  

Waitlist: Not a Yes, Not a No  

Being put on a waitlist can feel confusing. It means the school liked your application but doesn’t have enough space for you right now. However, if a spot opens up, they might offer you admission later, but it’s not a guarantee. Here’s what you should do:

• Stay Positive – Being waitlisted is not a rejection! You are still being considered. 

• Let the School Know If You’re Still Interested – Some schools require you to accept your spot on the waitlist to ensure that you would attend if admitted. Respond to their request if they ask!  

• Keep Your Grades and Activities Strong – If the school asks for updates, they’ll want to see that you’re still working hard. 

• Have a Backup Plan – Since a waitlist offer is not a guarantee, make sure you also consider other schools where you were accepted and make note of when their deadlines are so you know how long you can wait before making a decision! 

Rejection: It’s Okay to Feel Disappointed  

Rejection can be tough, but it doesn’t mean you’re not smart or talented. It just means that this particular school wasn’t the right fit at this time. Here’s how to handle it: 

• Don’t Take It Personally – Schools get many applications and have to make tough choices since they just don’t have room for everyone.  

• Talk About It – You might be feeling a range emotions – that makes sense! Talking about how you’re feeling- to a parent, teacher, friend, or anyone you feel comfortable with- can really help. It’s okay to be disappointed, and sharing your feelings can help. There are also peer support services out there if it feels more helpful to talk to someone your age, who is walking through a similar moment in their life. It could also help to talk to a professional if your stress is affecting your ability to go about your daily life.

• Look at Other Great Options – If you applied to more than one school, focus on the places where you were accepted, and immerse yourself in learning about the exciting parts of those schools.  

• Think About Reapplying – Some students apply again next year if they really want to go to a specific school. If that’s an option for you, consider ways to strengthen your application so you give yourself the best possible shot the next time around!  

Admissions Decisions Don’t Define You

Boarding school admissionsdecisions can feel like a rollercoaster of emotions, but no matter what happens, remember that one decision does not define you. Whether you get accepted, waitlisted, or rejected, the most important thing is to keep moving forward and find the best place for you to learn and grow. No matter where you end up, success is about what you do with the opportunities you have!

Good luck, and remember—you’ve got this, and Sesameed is here to help, every step of the way!  

If you’re ready to start exploring American boarding schools, Sesameed’s personalized boarding school admission counseling program can help. We can get you familiar with boarding school concepts, walk with you you through school choices and applications, all the way through application and attendance. Take the first step by contacting us today!